If your boyfriend has dumped you often trying to figure what you should do now can be very difficult indeed, especially if the relationship has been a long one. However, just sitting around and moping won't help you to get boyfriend back.
Often when a guy decides to end a relationship with a girl is because he is angry about something or just decides it's what he wants at that moment. Generally after a while however they realize the mistake they have made and so getting back with them is fairly easy.
The reason why he left you is because either you have let him or because you have actually acted in such a way that it has drove him away from you. The reason why he has left can either be he doesn't find the relationship exciting enough or because you have put too much pressure on them to make a commitment to you.
So before you can actually work on ways of winning them back you first need to determine just what caused him to leave in the first place. Once you know the reasons you can then start to work on ways of getting him back to you. Certainly recognizing your own faults is important if you want the relationship with them to have a chance a second time around.
Often the first thing you will need to do is make changes although you may have been compatible in the beginning over time you can become complacent and so you forget to try to work at your relationship with them. If you do find yourself in this kind of situation you need to look at what things you can change (although it's going to be hard) but if you really do love the guy then these should not matter as long as you are happy together.
It is important that when you initially contact them after the break up you don't start immediately talking about where the relationship went wrong. Rather you should talk about the more mundane things in life like asking about how they are and what they are doing currently. It's going to take time but eventually you will be able to communicate with each other more effectively and be more comfortable with spending time with each other.
During this stage of trying to get back your boyfriend after a break up try and organize things that you both enjoyed doing together when you first started dating. It is at this time you clearly need to start showing him that you are willing to make changes and why you have done them.
Although be prepared when trying to get boyfriend back that no matter what changes you make he may well not be willing to compromise and has decided that it is best never to have anything to do with you again. If this is the situation then walk away and get on with rebuilding your own life.
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